"Heartbreak is a Blessing " Lagos Big Boy Olumofin Busayo's Amazing Letter to the Ladies..

 I  stumbled on the Instagram Page of  Lagos Big Boy and Psychologist , Olumofin Busayo Adejoro and found this amazing letter to the ladies.. Coming from a man, I must say it's spot on..(Ladies, thank me later)
"Letter to the Ladies.. Vol 1( Heartbreak is Blessing)..

Dear Ladies, Part of the reasons for being created by God or your role on earth is to Love, Give Kindness, Support your kin, Embellish your environment.. Do Not let any guy hinder you from these precious things as a result of heartbreak. Most times when a woman is heartbroken she turns to defense mechanisms to help her through the situation ; these Defense Mechanisms may sometimes be Rebellious..

For example Drinking to get Drunk, Serial sex with random individuals, Depression, Excessive eating etc these things will only have a Malignant effect on you and stop you from your true purpose. Whoever broke your heart has moved on and is happy.. Don't beat yourself up. Instead Re-brand and Package yourself so he can bite his nails and say I really shouldn't have.. Real victory and real triumph comes after you overcome a bad situation.. From a guys Perspective ; I've done somethings to some Ladies I'm not proud of but I give respect to those of them who bounced back.